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If you haven’t yet discovered Krystal, she’s a must-read in the personal finance world. People in their 20s will particularly resonate with her posts – they’re fresh, relevant and frank. She beats the pants off me when it comes to knowing how to stretch a dollar, and still live well. Krystal tagged me, so here goes!

4 Things I’m Passionate About

1. Social Justice. I want to live in a world where human decency and compassionate conduct is the norm.
2. God. I’m the last of a dying breed: a mainstream-religion person (and spiritual too!)
3. Community and friendships, sine qua non.
4. Ideas. I bliss out watching TED, or reading philosophers/theologians.

4 Words or Phrases I Use Often

1. Dude
2. Unequivocal
3. Off the bed, daschunds! off.the.bed!
4. Hey, I have a question …. (proceeds to ask question)

4 Things I Want to do Before I Die

1. Take piano lessons again. Be able to play some of the great pieces.
2. Make a significant difference in the world, somehow
3. Run for public office (Green, FTW!)
4. Speak to a crowd of 10,000 and survive

4 Things I Have Learned From the Past

1. We don’t have as much control over things as we think
2. Losing my temper is never worth it
3. Sometimes things go right, after all. *yeah Obama! *yeah Gregor!
4. Life is worth living, even when things are awfully dark.

4 Places I Want to See or Visit

1. Cartegena
2. Halifax
3. Taize
4. Chicago

4 Favourite Restaurants

1. Six Acres
2. Sliced Tomatoes (not exactly a restaurant, but even better)
3. Irish Heather
4. Foos Ho Ho Restaurant (best Chinese in the city. too good to have a website)

4 Things that Happened Yesterday

1. It was my third last day at the bank (sniffle)
2. Had a great evening and bottle of wine with a neighbour and we both regretted that we finally got around to it only now that I’m leaving
3. I received the formal letter of offer for my new job
4. I started to panic about getting a tenant for my gorgeous condo

4 People I Tag

1. Miss Thrifty, my kindred spirit in the UK
2 Rebecca the beekeeper in the maritimes who helps me understand geek stuff.
3. Pete Quily who blogs and coaches re: ADD, yet is one of the calmest people I know.
4. Jonathon, because his politics are so, so different than mine, yet I seriously listen and consider his point of view (no small feat).

Editor’s Note: I wrote this for a newspaper about 5 years ago. I don’t imagine many of the stats have changed and the last paragraph – does it apply, or does it apply?


Oy Vey. It’s RRSP Time. They tell me I’ll need about a million to retire in comfort, but I figure if I just use TransLink til death, no longer need to buy pantyhose for work, and holiday on SaltSpring instead of, say, Tuscany, I only really need half-a-million. $500,000. Saved. Ummm, let’s see: On my typical middle class salary that would take me about ten years or so, if I don’t eat, shelter myself and if I cancel Tier Three Food TV (since I won’t be eating). Then again, I could just plan to work til I drop. Or buy more lottery tickets.

There actually are a handful of people who max their RRSP contributions. I’m not one of them (hello? I have my own business?) This is for the 66% of us British Columbians who didn’t contribute at all, according to Stats Can (and for the record, the 34% who did contribute only scraped together $2,600 on average). We’re the ones who have mortgage or rent payments, the size of which would buy a gold-plated house in any other city. We have childcare payments. Student Loan payments. Car payments. Line of Credit payments. And then the washing machine breaks. So that extra $1,000 monthly RRSP contribution comes from … where, again?

What are we to do? A few ideas:

1. Define our own terms for retirement. How will our cash flow needs mesh with the rest of our financial picture? For example, will we own a home by then? In what ways might our expenses decrease? Are we striving for an “annual-golfing-holiday in Palm Springs” style retirement or would we be content with something simpler?

2. Do the RRSP Thing anyway. It’s tempting to despair on the whole RRSP project. However, all the talk about tax-free, compound interest is for real. Don’t be intimidated by all the literature throwing around obscene suggested-$1000/monthly-contributions (I mean, honestly!). I started with $25.00. Trust me: your few dollars will start to gain interest, which gains interest, which gains interest etc. etc. Your initial few dollars will start to look surprisingly decent. Furthermore, again and again I’ve seen people make small efforts, and be it God, the Universe or sheer luck, through some mysterious means the small efforts result in disproportionate reward. Even if only standard returns come, saving for retirement, once started, will slowly but surely accumulate.

3. If needed, take out a loan. This will force savings (I still resort to this tactic. My willpower is as susceptible as anyone’s) and at these interest rates you’d be hard pressed not to make a net gain. RRSP loans are usually easy to obtain, since they’re backed by the asset of the RRSP, so if you’re ‘credit challenged’ still give this a go.

4. Get Creative. We don’t have a lot of models for preparing for retirement beyond accumulating huge income-yielding assets. But there are other means. One couple I know very happily moved to a developing country where the exchange rate keeps them in high style. Church groups and other organizations have come up with interesting co-op living solutions. There could be many more ways to ‘do retirement’ that don’t require a million in the bank. (“Logan’s Run” solution is not one of them!)

These are a few approaches to the daunting task of preparing for retirement. One last word. All the graphs and investment charts in the world cannot convince me we live in a predictable world. Making peace with uncertainty in general and retirement in particular may be the most freeing way to think about retirement. Within that uncertainty, be thoughtful, absolutely. But be panicked if you cannot make the industry’s recommended contributions? Not me. I have payments to make on a sweet, little condo. A washing machine to repair. And Food TV to pay for, of course.
Readers, if you’re bold, tell us about your RRSP habits – do you always max out? Have you ever? Never? Why/why not?

Many readers may realize this, but I didn’t, until well into my 30s.

Tax brackets, I thought, meant that if I earned over a certain amount, say $75K, all of my earnings would be subject to greater taxes.

That’s not how it works. Here’s where we’re at in Canada, for our federal (not including provincial) taxes per the budget speech today:

Nobody pays taxes on the first $10,320 we earn.
On every dollar after that up to $40,726 , we pay 15% income tax (= $4560.90 in taxes if we earned the full $40726.00).
On every dollar after that up to $81,452, we pay 22% income tax
And on every dollar after that we pay 26% income tax.

As an interesting fyi, income taxes contribute over half the revenue of the Gov’t. The rest comes from corporate taxes and gst.

It wasn’t til I was in my late-20s that it started to irritate me, a lot, to be referred to as “a girl”. Even by the most well-meaning people, it rubbed me the wrong way. Girl = wearing jewelry, fun, disempowered. Woman = competent, exercising sound judgment, adult. Words, names, matter.

Effective today, I’m no longer a “protester,” I’m an “engaged citizen”.

I live in a gorgeous little loft on the cusp of Vancouver’s notorious downtown eastside. For seven years I have lived and walked among people easily dismissed, and judged, and often uncared for by anyone, really — and in all of that – the dismissals, the judging, the uncaring – I include myself.

But somewhere along the way, I discovered opportunities to choose my response to these fellow citizens of mine, of ours – these fellow citizens some of whom shit in the park, who holler out profanities because they don’t get to take their anger inside anywhere, who inject right in public. And who sleep outside, and jaywalk with their worldly possessions in stolen carts, and congregate and spit in places like Pigeon Park.

The first thing that happened was I discovered I felt safe. That’s saying something: for the past 3.5 years, I’ve walked from Vancity by Science world right down Columbia street to gastown three or four nights a week, 9pm or later. And not once has there been so much as a whiff of threat to me. If you ever read articles about the need for increased police presence here so that people “feel safe” please wonder aloud who it’s referring to. It’s not me. I don’t mean to diss the VPD – probably I have felt safe in part because they are, indeed, a continual presence. But again, I have not once needed their help.

The next thing that happened was I started talking, a bit, “to” these neighbours rather than “about” them.

I chat to a guy who faithfully hoses off the sidewalks near my condo and gets paid under the table. He used to be a drummer in a band, does not do drugs, but has his own reasons for being on the margins of society. Most of the time he’s cheery; sometimes you can tell life is getting to him.

There’s another guy who once asked if he could say hi to my daschunds. He’s a hard-working binner who was living outside, then over the three years I’ve known him managed to get accommodation. He is entirely polite and often does our building the favour of emptying our overflowing recycling bins to take to United We Can to get $20 for his next day’s food. I’ll miss him a lot.

There’s a woman who clearly has a very low mental capacity and was gang-banged and will probably never recover. She’s not easy to be around but still has a will to live and dammit, a will to get the spare change she needs for some smokes. I am too intimidated to talk to her much, but I try to say “hi” when I can.

There’s the kid who still drapes himself in a sleeping bag like a security blanket, who every so often asks me to buy him groceries at Bills, the marvelously cramped corner store, and always gets the biggest box of Cheerios he can find, and 2L of milk.

There’s a grandmotherly woman – a beaut, when she was younger, I’m sure – who asks others for change, but not me anymore. Instead she just asks how I’m doing. I wish we could have tea; her presence is just lovely and I wonder what her story would be.

Oh – and there’s the guy who camped in Crab Park with his Very Big Very Gentle dog all one summer (he’s now living inside) who gave had been watching out for me one evening when a pitbull belonging to the courier-crowd went after my dachunds. (It ended ok, if you’re wondering. And I don’t object to the courier crowd cracking open their beers in the park, but this particular incident was not.cool.at all.) And being on talking terms with him led to a reluctant “I’m OK; You’re OK” nodding acquaintance with a very fierce-looking man who I doubt anyone would mess with.

I ask you: How could I not be blown away and angered when these people get “moved along” by the para-police (eg. Ambassadors) or handed tickets for sleeping in the park, when there truly were no other options?

So, I began inching towards engaging in politics a little outside my comfort zone.

It started with speaking up at city hall when there was discussion of building a 30,000 capacity stadium down the street. It would have been good for the sport, and good for the sports fans. It would not have been good for this fragile community of which I am a part. At all.

Then I started attending the STANDs for housing – just standing each Saturday with a group of people on the steps of my parish church, knowing other groups were huddled across the city, saying that we thought Vancouver could do a little better than leaving 1200 sleeping in the streets. Gregor Robertson made homelessness his #1 campaign issue, he won by a landslide, and who knows if by participating in the STANDs, I helped draw attention to this issue?

And then I went on a few marches – including one about a development on 58 W. Hastings street, which managed to bypass due process at city hall. Lo and behold, check out this article in last week’s globe and mail:

“We realize that the DTES community has an urgent agenda to solve, thehomeless agenda,” he said. “We want to work together with established community groups in the area to work towards that goal, along with city of Vancouver and the provincial government and any other funding groups.”
Speaking about the company’s purchase of 58 West Hastings St., Mr. Webb said it is possible the site could be used solely for social housing. In June, over the protests of more than 200 residents [ed note: that’s me!], the group was given permission to build 160 condominiums.

Today, I attended what will probably be my last march in quite some time (as I’m moving to Yellowknife).
I joined in solidarity with a whole lot of women who are insisting that homeless sweeps in preparation for the Olympics are not ok. Frankly, this march was a little uncomfortable for me. When slogans are shouted about keeping the “rich” out of the dtes, I feel self-conscious about my Fluevogs and purebred dogs. Am I being reverse-judged? When we stood in front of the police station and shouted about police racism, I wasn’t on board. The VPD are just doing their jobs, deal with a lot of crap, and many times go the extra mile to care for people around here.

But these discomforts of mine I set aside, as they are minor concerns in comparison to the larger question: How do we treat the most vulnerable, the most poor, in our society? This is the question to which these women – not the ones you see in People Magazine – were demanding an answer.

No doubt if the story is picked up by the press, we will as usual be referred to as “protesters”. This word connotes people who have nothing better to do, and are wasting everybody’s time because of course what we’re protesting doesn’t matter. Comments will likely be derisive, and off-base: Our contribution to society will be called into question, we will be told we should get jobs (new readers – I am a middle-class income earner, and have been my whole life), perhaps even told we should be arrested yada yada yada.

I’m used to that now.

But gentle readers, be it known that I throw off the label of “protester” as thoroughly as I throw off being called a “girl”. I am engaged citizen. I think we can do better (Yes. We. Can.) as a society, and I’m not afraid to say so, anymore, even if the saying-so is a bit rough around the edges.


Photo Credit: Cecily K