A Money Coach in Canada

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This week’s guest post is by a fellow british columbian, WestCoastWoolies, who agreed to tell her inspiring story about their journey out of debt.

debtsucksshirt2.jpgA year ago my husband and I were facing a few financial challenges. He had been unemployed as a union welder for almost 3 months, and my new business, although keeping me busy, wasn’t bringing in the cash flow fast enough. We couldn’t keep up with the bills, and our credit cards were both maxed.

Our $96,000 in debt seemed insurmountable and we fought about money regularly. Really, we were not prepared to live without a steady income (though I think we thought we were), and the situation we were in had not improved significantly over the previous year.
There is no formula to how we started to turn things around, in some ways we had luck on our side, because within a few months my husband did have full time employment and money from my contract eventually started to trickle in. I think what has really helped us though are a few simple steps, which we had to learn when faced with our financial challenges:

1. Because we do have variable income, we had to create a budget which we could live with, in the lean times. When income is lower than usual we still need to be able to pay bills, debts, and eat. We still need to put some extra money each month towards one debt (a snowball debt) and be able to save. We created this budget back in March 2007, and it has varied little since. The key components are: to cover all fixed expenses, including debts and the mortgage, to plan sufficiently for variable expenses such as groceries, and, most importantly to my husband, have an allowance for each of us so we can play a little each month. This last one, I tell you, has almost completely stopped any arguments about money between myself and my husband (who likes to spend a little). It gives us each financial freedom and responsibility at the same time, while not allowing us to go overboard.

2. When our income is higher than usual, any extra cash goes directly to debt. This concept has meant we have made big strides in our debt repayment at times, while at others the debt appears to change very little because we only have $500 a month in our budget to apply as a debt snowball amount.

3. We also made sure we started planning for our future for the first time. We had some small RRSP contributions, and my husband has a pension through his union, but we went to a financial advisor for the first time and began financial planning in earnest. It was an interesting exercise to work with an advisor to see where could go once our debts paid off. It actually gave me hope that we can be successful and retire (I was worried I might be working forever) and that alone gives me energy to keep paying off debt.

With our regular monthly debt repayments combined with lump sum payments when we could afford them, we have reduced our debt by $14,993 in 10 months. It took us awhile to find a system which worked with our variable income, allowing us to get by in times of lower income, and take advantage of the times when our income is higher (rather than just spending all that extra money on ‘stuff’).

Our credit rating has improved dramatically in this time period because we are no longer at the limits of our credit. And the most exciting part of becoming financially on track for us is that we were able to start a family. I am 20 weeks pregnant, our little boy is due in June, and we have a financial plan in place which will further reduce our debt by about $10,000 and enable us to live off of one salary plus our savings (and still pay off our debts!).

It’s ash wednesday, in my particular faith tradition, and I had a whimsical thought: I will return to dust, but some of my loonies and toonies will outlast me! kinda erie, now, looking at my coin jar.

And on a more serious note, I was struck by how money-and-power/politics related the liturgical prayers for ash wednesday were:

We confess….

our self-indulgent ways, and our exploitation of other people

our anger at our own frustration, and our envy of those more fortunate than ourselves

our intemperate love of worldly goods and comforts [ed note: that would be me]

Accept our repentence…

for our blindness to human need and suffering

for our prejudice and contempt toward those who differ from us

for our waste and pollution of creation, and our lack of concern for those who come after us.

Ouch! Hit a little close to home…

red dotSick of junk mail flooding your mailbox (not the virtual ones. the real ones)? Red Dot Campaign is encouraging Canadians to unite! and stop the junk mail madness, already! It gives simple suggestions to become junk mail free and as an added bonus, the number to call to get off phone-call lists.

telephoneAnd speaking of phonecalls, here’s a tip: you know when the phone rings, and there’s a pause before you get connected to the telemarketer? Someone (a credible source) told me that if you repeatedly press the # key (or is it the *?) it will mess up the system so your phone number gets taken out. Give it a try. If nothing else, there’s something satisfying about it.

Ever heard of a freegan? Neither had I until I stumbled upon this site.

Wow. Here I was worried about the quality of my donations to the local thrift store… Freegans are hardcore.

Freegans are people who employ alternative strategies for living based on limited participation in the conventional economy and minimal consumption of resources. Freegans embrace community, generosity, social concern, freedom, cooperation, and sharing in opposition to a society based on materialism, moral apathy, competition, conformity, and greed.

freegans

I’m in awe. Kinda reminds me of the spirit of The Story of Stuff.
And perhaps out of concern that most of us will reconsider our spending, the Harper’s gov’t wants to hear from us via an online poll about their budget. Seriously. We have til Feb 11th, so let’s each chime in. Nothing wrong with living out a bit of democracy now and then.

ps.  a couple weeks ago I decided to try losing 20 lbs again, motivated in part by my growing politics, ie., it’s nuts for me to carry extra me around, when there’s a lineup of men every 7am for the soup kitchen across the street from me.  I’m taking a slow approach and have lost a couple lbs in the last two weeks.  More importantly, I’m eating much better food, thanks to You on a Diet and have truly experienced a stabilized metabolism (ie, eliminated the tired, cranky and hungry moments).

Factoid:  our ‘gut’ is actually an organ called ‘Omentum’ and its purpose is to collect fat from our stomachs.  Is that disgusting, or wonderful? you decide (all I know is I need less of an omentum!)

looniepps: And regarding Share the Love Feb,  I’ve been successful at avoiding cafes for 3 days straight (don’t mock me.  it’s an accomplishment, in my books!).   Now I need to start carrying loonies around (I’m usually cashless) to keep my commitment to give away a loonie each day.