Here’s Nancy on location in beautiful Yellowknife, livecoaching a newly-single woman on personal money management in this challenging situation. Enjoy.
Thanks to my experience with Nancy’s Money Coaching, I now have a healthy relationship with my money. Using techniques & strategies she taught, combined with tackling my old and outdated belief system around money, I managed to extract myself from $25K in debt. No more dreaded credit card bills weighing me down, no more not knowing what’s happening to my money – now I live within my means and feel pride in how well managed it is!
How do you perceive yourself and your money? Do you have a healthy relationship? Do you avoid it? Feel anxious about it? Feel it’s beneath you to think about it?
Money should be a reflection of you and your values – a means of bringing more of yourself into the world. It can be a wonderful blessing, something that nourishes you and people you love, and allows you to help create the kind of world you want to see.
If you are skittish around it, or uninvolved, it’s like a loose energy that may not be helpful to you or people you care about or your community.
If you’re ready to get intimate with your money, start with my simple step-by-step program, It’s Your Money!
Hi, my name is Karen and I’ve been working with Nancy for several weeks now and am just starting Module 4. So far my biggest learnings have been 1) realizing that I am not far off in the estimates of my expenses and 2) looking at my finances isn’t quite as scary as it seemed when I started this process. Huge thanks to Nancy for making this process feel safe!
Karen in BC Sept. 2011
I don’t think Karen’s head was in the sand. But a lot of folks’ heads are, that’s for sure! Plenty of people can get away with it because their incomes, fortunately, exceed their intuitive lifestyle. But if anyone want to be strategic and intentional with their money, that’s not the way to go!
What often happens though is that just under the surface, things actually are NOT ok. Then a little (or big), unanticipated financial crisis occurs where the happy equilibrium to date gets busted. At that point, folks have a choice — hurriedly rectify the situation (if possible) and carry on as before, as step back, and start taking control of their money.
Is your own head in the sand about your finances? Are you blithely unaware and secretly scared of what you’ll find out? As the saying goes, There’s nothing to fear, but fear itself! Seriously: Again, again and again once my clients pull their heads out of the sand and start getting clear about their money they feel an enormous sense of relief. They know what they have to work with and can start building realistic plans. Would you want to have any other kind of plan? Or do you prefer no plan at all….?
If you’re ready to pull your head out of the sand and gain clarity, my online program will help. You will feel safe. Take the Tour to get started!
“We are currently on Module 9 of It’s Your Money. The biggest way this program has been helpful to us is that it has given us hope. We have been trying to get out of debt and into control for years now and it finally feels like it’s possible. Barry and Jeanette, BC Sept. 2011”
So many clients have a quiet hopelessness about their debt. They’ve been nearly submerged in it for so long they cannot conceive of it ever going away. Or perhaps they roll it into their mortgage only to wrack up the credit cards again.
In my experience, here is the underpinning reason folks don’t get out of debt once and for all: They focus solely on their debt – it becomes the central drama of their financial lives – instead of looking at their overall financial picture and seeing how debt-reduction can realistically fit in.
Here’s a practical example. Say Joe and Sue (fictional!) have a credit card of $7K plus a LOC of $11K. Then one day they bump up their LOC by $3K AND THEY PANIC.
Determined to GET RID OF THEIR DEBT they vow to cut back on eating out. To stop going to live theatre. Maybe even to sell the car and use public transit (but they don’t).
See what’s happening? They are not factoring in things like — some nights they work til 8pm and making themselves a meal is just.not.gonna.happen at that point. things like — going out for lattes is a stress-break, a vital little perk in the day, without which they feel pretty despondent (can’t even afford a freakin’ latte??). things like — next month is their anniversary and they are going to want to celebrate it.
When clients work with my program, they develop a holistic plan. One that accounts for their lifestyle and their idiosyncrasies that have unique money components. Only by grounding itself in LIFE AS IT REALLY IS, can any eliminate-debt plan hope to succeed.
There are the Krystal’s of the world, for sure, who are able to make it a priority and have it over and done with in a year. But for the majority of folks, a measured, one step after another approach is what works in the long haul.